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Friday, August 29, 2008

Katrina, My Story from the beginning. this is long!







Its been 3 years since Katrina hit, and it changed not only my life, but many. Hi, My name is Melissa and I am a Katrinian. (thats what we were called). I am going to tell you my story, one you didn't hear on the TV or radio. No, because I was not living in New Orleans. I was in Biloxi,MS. First we will start from the beginning of 2003. WoW what a year. In June we packed up our stuff and moved from Elmendorf AFB,AK to Keesler AFB,MS. Yes we drove! and I was 8+ months pregnant with number 4! Everyone kept saying she was going to be born in Canada, but she made it to MS. So we reach the border of Cananda and US and the border patrol says, we are going to have to search you. WHAT!! We had a trailer packed with containers, a rooftop carrier 3 kids, a dog and a cat. Not to mention, I WAS PREGNANT! So we pull over to get searched and Jesse give them his ID and gets ready to get out. The patrol, says Thank You sir for serving our country, we are not searching you, have a great day! YES!! That is how it should have been in the first place, but anyway, So we continue on our journey to Biloxi, stopping in Wisconsin to see Jesses sister and husband. We left Colby and Timothy there for a few weeks. This was the first time I left them and it was hard, I cried! (prego) So we had to go a few hundred miles out of our way to see my mom and daddy, because we were at a sermon on fathers day and I bawled, " I miss my Daddy" ( what men have to put up with!) Now onto MS we reach there right around the 4th. About a week later evacuate for Dennis, no problem, got the boys, got paid to stay in a hotel and swim. It was nice.We got our house, not the one we were supposed to get, Thank God! July 26th give birth to Emilee. August 4th The two older boys start school, I go back to the hospital with pre-eclampsia. almost coma stage. Get mag-ox overdose, finally after a couple days go home. The doc gives me a new drug for my migraines... topamax. yes finally no more migraines. (so i thought) About a month later, Colby goes to the hospital on base, he sliced his foot open, And I hear a guys saying the hurricane changed course, its headed right for us. We did not have TV set up yet so, I had no idead what was going on. I asked Jesse, he said, yeah. So we went on with life. That night went to a couples house and got evacuation orders at about 11pm, and by the way, Jesse, you have to stay. WHAT! Oh well, we packed up, thinking it would be like Dennis, we went toFlorida to stay with friends and said I will see you this weekend.Mind you we left in shorts,flip flops and tanks. We didn't even bring socks. We planned to visit them labor day weekend anyway. Well it was a 10 hour drive. it should have been a 4 hour drive. Just me and my kids and my post partum. We get to Florida and the bridge is closed to where I need to go. We go into Mcdonalds and people are just wonderful, a lady buys our dinner and finds a way for us to get to my friends! We get there. Katrina hits.. Head on Gulfport. Right by my husband.Remember how I said we didn't get the house we wanted. well those houses were destroyed! Our house only had minimal damage. Again, I thank God. I kept watching the devastation wondering, is he still alive. I wondered for 2 days. Until I finally got a call. Obviously we weren't going to see him anytime soon. I can't go home. I get a phone call from my wonderful sis in Wisconsin offering us to stay with them. I accept and start our trek up to Wisconsin from Florida with 4 kids.( em is a month old) I have started my migraine med and uped the dose, I started breaking out in hives.. hmm why? Gotta keep movin' on. We stop at a hotel, I ask for a military discount and they ask for my zipcode I give it to them, oh you get the red cross discount. Ends up I didn't get billed at all. Back in Florida at Tyndall AFB, I got a grant from the AF. This helps us to get to Wisconsin, and get some warmer clothes. Back to the travels. One night, it is late, I got lost twice, almost hit a semi, looking at the map, I was spent. On the radio, I hear..." Jesus take the wheel, take from my hands cause I can't do this on my own, I letting go" I did just that! I pulled over and did just that, and bawled!! ( I cried alot) I still cry when I hear that song! We made it to my moms house.My hives are worse, I go to a dr and they say maybe its you BP med. So they changed it, I uped my Topamax again. I got some more help from the red cross and the food bank. We then made it Wisconsin,My hives are at the worst, I go to a dr again, Oh, she says, you are allergic to sulfa? Topamax has sulfa! ARRGH. I was driving all that way coating on hydrocortisone cream and dosing up on benedryl. Made for a miserable drive. Anyway,We got so much help, from my sisters school it was amazing, how caring people were! But we needed everything.We stayed there for 4 months. We then got orders to Fairchild AFB, WA. The pics are from Biloxi, almost 4 months after Katrina. I just told my story to let people know, that even though all you read and heard about was New Orleans. Others got the brute of Katrina. There were so many people who got it worse than I! I still pray for them, as they are still recovering. The stories Jesse told me about the 4 months he was there. Are heart wrenching. When you see the pics say a little prayer for all those affected by Katrina and now Gustav is headed there. Thanks for reading my LONG story and letting me share some of my trials and tribulations. Just so you all know, this is not a pity me post, I have triumphed through this and wanted to share that God is with us always! He will help you get through anything! God Bless you all!
This used to be a Sonic on the beach. Right
down from my house.
Base housing on Keesler,AFB
A shore strip store.
One of the hotels/casinos
The empty coast line, where hotels and casinos
once lined the beach.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Nomalcy, finally is right around the corner! Yippee!

Yeah for the new fall year!! Since we moved at the end of December last year, we just have not gotten back into our groove. It has taken me along time to recover from my hysterectomy (its been over 8 months now. still some pain, not alot) Anyway, with fall coming up, it means AWANA!! Also kids back in school and MOPS! Couldn't do without my MOPS! I also finally found a new creative memories consultant and have my first friday night crop since leaving Spokane. YAY!! So I am feeling chipper about finally coming into our groove. Now just to find a new church home again. It will be hard to find one after the Wonderful church we left in Spokane! What a wonderful Church Family! We love and miss them all! So does fall bring back any normalcy to anyone else? Summers are fun but usually chaotic. So fall brings some sense of peace with the crisp air and turning leaves.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Giveaways!!

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A little bit of everything!

Have not posted any kid pic recently so I was
told I need too! So here are some things we did
last week!

Bailey and Em jumping around!

Check out Ems hair, she was mid bounce!

Timothy helping bake brownies for a sleepover.

Baking buddies. " yay we are cool!"

Colby ready to get the brownies going!

Emilee putting sticker in her new stickerbook!

Yup, had to copy Christian and make Em a stickerbook!
I used cardstock and braiding cord and beads. Em loves it!
Thanks for the idea Christian!

Recycled juice box purse!


Drink Boxes Aseptic packages, a.k.a. drink boxes, used to hold fruit juices and milk are not reusable, compostable, or biodegradable, and are difficult to recycle. An environmentally sound alternative to drink boxes are refillable containers. I bought this purse on Ebay! I love my new purse! I love doing little things that I can to help the environment! This is a great way to help and this was made in a forgein country which helps the fair trade. Anyway had to share my new purse, cause I love it!! Also, use reusable bags at the grocery stores!! Now most stores have them for only $1 a bag! You can stuff them full and think of all the plastic,petroleum you will not use!

Friday, August 22, 2008

If you want it done right, you gotta do it yourself...

Or should it be, if you don't want to do everything yourself, learn to deal with it. For almost 12 years now, I have been working on dealing with it. Yes, it may not be done "right" but my "right" and somebody elses "right" might not be the same. So, I decided it is worth more to me to let others help and let their right, be alright for me. I did not grow up that way, so it has been tough to transition into it's alright. But with 4 kids, you learn that alright is right!

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Discovered the 6th love language of my children...Transformer


Okay, so I have been reading the 5 love languages of children and trying to put it into practice. My hubby has also checked it out a bit. So last night. We were talking about Bailey and his love language. Jesse said Baileys was, and he made the noise... er e rr er e. We laughed so hard we cried. Okay so now to explain. When the transformers transform they make a noise, like er e rr e. Bailey pretends ALL the time that he is a transformer and he too makes the er e rre r noise. Lately, all he talks about is transformers. So anyway, thats it. Just had to share our bit of humor.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Can I Please!! call in sick! Just once!


Can I just once call in sick to the first and utmost important job, Mommy and wife! I got a cold yesterday and just feel blah. I still had to run to appointments and do my "job" and by the end of the day, I was exhausted and went to bed at 7pm. I still feel blah today and just want to stay in bed. But no matter what, even when Daddy tries to take over, the kids still are saying "mommy,mommy!" I just want to call in sick, and have somebody "clock in" for me and do all my jobs! I will even pay my wages. ;) I added to the post a pic of what I would suggest next time you feel blah! They worked for my kids and are working for me!

Monday, August 18, 2008

School supply lists!! ARRGGHH


Okay, I hope I am not the only one who hates buying back to school supplies every year! The kids always have leftovers from the previous years, but the next grade wants different supplies. So its buying all over again.It gets very frustrating! This year one the boys grades says to bring 48, yes 48 pencils! What the heck is my 6th grader going to do with that many pencils? Build another school room. They ask for too many things at once! One year, my son needed a 16 count crayon. NO MORE they wrote in bold letters. So I went to Walmart to get his 16 count crayon, and would you know the 16 count was 3 times as expensive as the 24 count. So being me, I of course went on line and found out which 16 crayons were in the box and bought the 24 count and gave him the 16 he needed. Instead of spending over $1.50 I spent .25! I am sure my frugalness will one day embarrass my family, but a penny saved is a penny earned! So this week we will be buying more supplies and even though, I am sure I have half of the supplies hiding in the kids closet, I will get more, and will be sure to complain the whole time, even though I know it really is a waste of time and I should do all things without complaint.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

The forever stamp

I was in the post office today, and saw a sign on the "forever stamp" It was always hold the current value of postage, no matter how much you originally paid for it. I thought that was pretty cool to know,esp since postage keeps going up and up! Thought I would pass this on to those who may not know.

Monday, August 11, 2008

Etsy

I have finally got a few things in my Etsy shop. I will be adding more, hopefully daily. You can find me at melcrumley.etsy.com or you can just go to Etsy .com and look under seller names. and put in melcrumley! Come check me out! Thanks ! ps. if you click on the Etsy pic it will send you to the website. I also have my shop name right under my blog title and above the etsy pic.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

This is great! Go Green!


Okay so I am all for Going Green! I think we all need to do a little more to make our environment all the better. So the new Arm & Hammer Essential Oils cleaner is great! It works great and.... You don't throw the big bottle away, you reuse it and use the small bottle refills! I was so excited that somebody was coming up with ways to use less waste! Less plastic!! YES!!

Friday, August 8, 2008

Healthier living. Homemade bread for a start!


Well, We decided that we needed to start making healthier choices. We are starting with making our own bread! Without high frutose corn syrup. We made our first loaves last week and they turned out yummy! I am going to make my next batch tomorrow. I use my KitchenAid mixer and it worked great. Making the bread was not as hard as I thought and did not take as long. When considering the benefits of making the bread and just buying it! This is our first choice to better living and it will be cheaper!

This is honey wheat bread.

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Random Acts of Kindness

I read a story somewhere along the way of life about a family that some of the siblings just could not get along and really disliked each other. So they did a secret pal for random acts of kindness. I have this situation in my family. They get along alot, but then again, there is SO much fighting. We are going to do the secret pal drawing for random acts of kindness this evening. For one week you do things for your secret pal, without them knowing it was you. At the end of the week you get to reveal who your pal is and discuss how being kind made you feel. I am hoping that this will be a wonderful learning opportunity for my family. I am excited to see how it unfolds and will keep it updated!

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Monday, August 4, 2008