If you want it done right, you gotta do it yourself...

Or should it be, if you don't want to do everything yourself, learn to deal with it. For almost 12 years now, I have been working on dealing with it. Yes, it may not be done "right" but my "right" and somebody elses "right" might not be the same. So, I decided it is worth more to me to let others help and let their right, be alright for me. I did not grow up that way, so it has been tough to transition into it's alright. But with 4 kids, you learn that alright is right!